What do LDS girls want in a BF/possible husband? And i mean what you ACTUALLY look for
, not what you tell people you look for (yes, i know there is a difference, we dont have to play those games here
I want to marry a sinner. (We are all sinners) But a sinner who wants to improve and become more like Christ and our Heavenly Father, and understands we must repent every day. I think perhaps what the list should be are things we DON'T want in a husband.
*I don't want a control freak.
*I don't want someone who is a lazy pig.
*I don't want someone I have to tell to go look for a job everyday.
*I don't want to marry a liar.
*I don't want to marry a cheater.
*I don't want us to have too many differences in likes and dislikes.
*I don't want an abusive jerk.
I mean I could go on...but you get the drift...and really it doesn't matter what we want, but what we need. We need priesthood holders, we need return missionaries because of their strength in the gospel...etc. We women are weak as well. SO of course we are going to give those things as what we want. But really...we marry who we date...get us on a date and then it's whether or not we click.