is funny how some people just can't help but to feel guilty about being in this virtual places, (that to my taste they are nothing but a waste of time),
any way, they step in with the overused cliched statement of: i'm just here for the forums, i'm just here to try it out, uh, i'm just here to find friends around the world... yeah right, I'm just here cause my best friend dragged me at gunpoint uh...muh huh
You are here because you can't find a date where you live, that's all, and you are so desparate to find your prince charming that you thought to give this places a go.
it's ok, if you think about it, is a bit embarrasing to find love over the net cuase your real life isn't as exiting as you wanted it to be.
just remember this experience can be as frustrating and unpleasent as the one you already had with real people, unless you become a chit-chat junkie like most of the people in these sort of sites are,
you may want to take a few minutes out and ponder,
you may want to start meditating that the problem to all this series of unfortunate events,...may be your attitude towards dating!